Have you heard about the popular dating app HER? Its a dating designed by lesbians for the queer and LGBTQ+ community. Come take a look at what we found!
Dating App Review: HER
Quick Index
- Overview
- Community and Membership
- Costs and Pricing
- Platform Availability
- Matching Mechanism
- Conclusion
Overview
This dating app is to create a safe and fun dating space for the entire diverse and welcoming community. Let's take a closer look shall we and see how it compares to other dating apps.
Community and Membership
- It is an Inclusive Community and Membership App Caters specifically to women, trans, and non-binary individuals, embracing a wide range of gender identities
- Boasts over 13 million queer members across 100 countries, creating a substantial global network.
- Features 35+ diverse online communities for different groups and interests, from age-specific to sexuality-focused communities
First - the site caters to women, trans, and non binary individuals including all other gender identities not mentioned here. The more the merrier under this umbrella of diverse gender identities. The site likes to state that there are over 13 million queer members in over 100 countries - quite a large established base. The app also has something it calls communities - social areas where you can go and discuss certain issues and topics and share some photos among the members and people in this community.
They have over 35 such communities, and it is a great idea and very popular among the members. The types of communities are diverse and far ranging and can be anything from the 40 plus group to the bisexual group. Join and see the full list of communities they have. Unlike many other dating apps - the appeal to her for all kinds of love - friendship, relationship and everything in between.
A real attempt to foster a community of love in all forms, sizes, and shapes. In a nutshell, you can define the experience very simply here - which is a good thing - you want a dating site that makes the experience simple, effective and straightforward. In general, it incorporates a swiping system - common to many dating apps - that is - if you are interested in that person, then you swipe right on this dating app. If you were not interested in the person you would swipe left. Again, nothing unusual or different here, then again if it works, why mess with a winning formula.
Unique Features
What adds some separation from similar type dating apps is some unique features - such as their varied virtual events. For example they have a Holiday Speed Dating event. The rules are fairly simple - pay an admission fee, usually approximately 5 dollars and then use the features sent to you, to attend this live event.
A very good idea, and I am sure one that is successful for them. The question that comes to everyone's mind when using the swipe left swipe right method is - what happens if I swiped too quickly, or by accident?
What happens if I swiped left and decided to change my mind, i.e. I want to see that person again, or show that I am interested - then what? Well, the site has thought of everything and given you the rewind button - it does exactly what it sounds like. You get to go back to the profiles you may want to take a second look at - a great, great feature to have for those wondering about the "what if scenario".
Summary
- The app hosts unique virtual events, including a popular Holiday Speed Dating event with a small admission fee.
- Users can attend live events via features sent to them, creating a fun, interactive experience.
- The "rewind" button allows users to revisit profiles they accidentally skipped, offering a second chance for connections.
Costs and Pricing
Like all sites there is a free component to it. But to take full advantage of all the features they have put into the app, the recommendation from us would be to try out the paid app and see if it works for you. What happens if I don't pay - well, like all apps there will be limits placed on what you can and cannot day.
Most substantially, the swipe mechanism that every user is so fond of will be limited. Also, the filters which are quite extensive here and quite useful will also be severely limited - allowing you only to search by two criteria - that would be by location and the person's age.
The costs overall are much cheaper than your usual dating apps - and that's a good thing. One month will run you a bargain basement price of only $15 dollars approximately, and if you do the one year membership you are looking at less than 8 dollars a month - a bargain to be sure for such a good site.
Another question that comes up is how to stop the constant ads from wanting me to join. Easy, join and no more constant pop ups or emails. Otherwise you will have to get used to it - although to be fair, isn't it any more greater than other popular dating apps. I don't know the answer to that question - but would be willing to wager it may not be the worst offender in this crowded dating app marketplace.
- The app offers a free version with limited features, notably restricted swipe functionality and reduced filtering options, allowing only searches by location and age.
- Pricing is competitive, with monthly membership around $15 and an annual subscription dropping to less than $8 per month, which is considered a good value for the service.
- Joining the paid version eliminates constant advertising and pop-ups, providing a more streamlined user experience compared to other dating apps in the marketplace.
Platform Availability
Interestingly enough the dating app HER is only available as an app, not for the PC. This is obviously a strategic move, although I am not sure if it's a negative one or not. Some would argue that those who use PC or tablets are a dying breed, and therefore there is no use for it. I would argue they are wrong - that there is certainly a substantial minority using PCS to scroll through various profiles and look for love. Then again, I may be in the minority since a lot of new apps are launching strictly for the app audience only.
Matching Mechanism
Let's be a bit more clear on the swiping features. When you swipe right on someone you are interested in, that does not mean you contact them. You can only contact them when they swipe you at right - there has to be a mutual match. Now this form of matchmaking is a risky gambit for some. For those that do not like to be bothered, it makes their job much easier.
The prettier people will know, they can only get matched up by people they want to be matched up with - no stragglers allowed. This form of matchmaking is very good for those with selective tastes, and who are popular. However, for the crowd that is batting in the average zone, for them, and them only, it limits who and what contacts them.
There is nothing better than messaging someone who may be out of your league, hoping that your witty message somehow breaks through and gives you a dating shot. So, on this issue, it depends on what side of the fence you are sitting on. The have or the have nots.
Conclusion
In the end, a more than solid app with many happy users, who commend the site for its brilliance in helping out the community in find love and friendship in a safe and inclusive environment.
Tools for the reader
1. Virtual event participation
2. Community chat rooms
3. Profile swipe feature
KEYWORDS
- LGBTQ+ dating app
- Inclusive community
- Queer networking
- Virtual dating events
- Gender-diverse platform
FAQ
Q: Who all can use the HER app?
Women, trans, non-binary, and diverse gender identities across 100 countries.
Q: What are the costs of membership?
Only $15 a month (or less than $8 a month if you subscribe annually)
Q: Am I able to use HER on a desktop?
A: No, currently only able to use it with a mobile.
Q: What is the matching process?
A: You need a right-swipe from the other person to contact them.
Q : What makes HER so special?
A: A schedule for 35+ digital societies that accommodate everyone, events organized in digital space, and a rewind item.
Written By: Anthony Rand. B.A., B.A., LL.M.
About the Author
Anthony Rand is a relationship expert with over 35 years of experience in the dating world. He has helped individuals navigate the complexities of modern relationships. He has authored numerous articles on topics ranging from online dating strategies to building lasting relationships. He holds degrees, including an LL.M. (Master of Laws) and two Bachelor of Arts degrees.
Disclaimer
Please remember, there is much variation and diversity in life. Within this variation come various expectations and differences. What may work in the article above may not work for others. While this article does provide great insight and strong fundamentals it cannot answer all the issues. It is limited in its scope, since every relationship is different. Follow your heart and mind to see what works best for you.
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Updated January 31, 2025