Lets get this out of the way first. Most men don’t know how to dress. Add to that, most women don’t either. So, since you have two groups who are largely unaware that they are not stylish, the odds are your date will be happy with the way you dress.
As well, most men don’t if the girl is gorgeous and she is wearing a potato sack on her. As long as he looks good, everything else is all right and can be fixed later. That may apply to the girls as well, will have to get a second opinion and female perspective on that.
To those who say most people cant dress. Well, do the airport experiment. When waiting for a long flight, I sit and watch all groups, all sexes, coming and going to their destinations and watching what they wear. Some dress to impress (why?), while others are being there naturally selves. It is their I came to the conclusion most are lost in the fashion wilderness. Then again, fashion is over rated - there are only so many ways you can make a mend pant. It has been invented, and there is nothing more you can do - other than put hover pants on in George Jetsons time.
Back to fashion. The Sugar Daddy aka the male who has found his sugar baby match. What to wear. Here are some basic pointers to come out ahead on your date, and not have her question you as to why you are wearing jeans with a dad bod on the date? PS I hate when older men wear jeans. You cannot look good in them. Do not even try it.
GETTING FASHION READY FOR YOUR DATE
How to dress up for your date. A tough question indeed. Some would say depending on the sex, and depending on the venue. All true criteria. To keep this commentary brief, I would argue that women have more diverse options than men in dressing up and or dressing down. Yes, yes, the howls of protest. But really, men have more limited options - as mentioned above - there is only so many ways a man’s pant can be made and look. Unless you want to bring back the parachute pant - I rest my case.
First rule. Dress to impress. That is always the first and best rule of advice. Show them that you care about your appearance. Show them that you have some good taste in you. What that is exactly, will be dependant on you (then again, there are those rare few who can wear a potato sack, and one would still say they look gorgeous - so for those .0001 percent I say skip this advice!) The trick here is to play a proper line. You can go one of two ways here. You can dress to impress by trying not too hard to look like that - the casual look. Or you go full out, peacock style, and say here I am, look at me, don’t I look good? (when I say peacock I am not reoffering to some ultra male macho rule fashion handbook that says wear loud colours, loud prints, loud t shirts! that everyone has to look at me. No!)
Dress to Impress
For the dress to impress casual look, that simply means don’t try to hard to impress, where you stand out, to wherever you go, for all the wrong reasons. You attire must match your locale. Second, which is a faux paux for many - dress your age. As mentioned before, I cannot stand to see men at an advance age wearing jeans. Remember senior men I am looking at you, jeans is a big no no!
Finally, always wear clothes that make you feel comfortable. No, I am not saying wear some sweat pants and a t shirt. Rather, wear clothes that you are comfortable in! Try to wear a style that you are familiar with, and that you like yourself in. Even major fashion brands get this wrong as well as their stylists, when you a see a celebrity wearing something, and you wonder who told them to wear this - it looks ridiculous! Wear something you know you look good in, that matches your personalty, and that your comfortable in - that is half the battle won for your sugar date.
What happens if you have no style, what to do? No, don’t hire a stylist, who half the time and more get it wrong themselves. There is a simple trick to employ here that should work every time. Simply write down 3 fashion brands you like, or a few fashion stores you like. Go online to these brands or stores and see what the male models are wearing. Of course you are not going to wear the exact thing, but, you can copy the style an colours pretty close. That’s why you can guarantee yourself looking good without anyone’s second opinion. Voila, over and done with the fashion style.
Accoutrements
Men love to wear watches. Expensive watches. There is no problem in wearing a watch you like, even if it costs the amount of a car or more. The problem lies in how you wear it. Do not, and I repeat do not do the following - do not let the watch hang so every time you move to take a drink or bite it is noticeable, or it makes a noise. Yes, we get it, you have a nice watch. But no one likes to have it flashed at them constantly. Much to many sugar daddy’s styling efforts, showing off is not what you want to do here. You want to keep things pragmatic. That means keep things normal, even keel, and fashionable. Anything beyond that is not necessary. If you find yourself flashing your watch all night, I can guarantee your date will get sick of it, and possibly, sick of you.
CONCLUSIONS
There you have it Sugar Daddy fashionistas, a quick guide on how to get ready in a fashionable way for your sugar baby date. A few quick tips to make sure you are good to go, and at least batting a triple on your date.
Written by:
James Downder